It's called unconscious for a REASON

In ACIM Jesus tells us that we are terrified of getting along with one another. It's like if you are too warm and fuzzy BAM, you will lose yourself. Come on, come one now, we all do it, get cranky for no (apparent) reason when someone is just trying to have some fun with us.
This is no moral issue, it's just the unconscious fear of Love, honey. How do we know when we have stumbled into this lonely territory? We know by how we are behaving. We are so tender, aren't we?
"So," you might say, "Revie how do we get out of this little thorny state of mind?" Well, that's easy peasy. We take a little time out, from whatever we are doing and acknowledge that our prickly attitude, has NOTHING to do with anyone but US. We cut oursevles some slack, dust ourselves off and change our mind about being so darn incooperative. NOW we can get our party on!

"God's will for you is perfect happiness." ACIM

RIR xox